Okay, so you are not one of those who is particularly attracted to being a virtual character. The character in the game is just that and nothing more. So what else is attractive about video games. Well like almost everything else on the internet, most MMORPGs create highly social and interactive environments for their users. In fact, MMORPGs encourage players to play with other people. The rewards in game are much greater to those who accomplish quests with larger groups of people. There aren't many things that bring people together more then sharing a common goal or interest.
MMORPGs give people a chance to meet others from all over the world. However they are different from those social networking sites, in that all these player already share a common interest, the game itself. Instantly two or more people have a rich conversation topic and shared interest that brings them together. In addition to that, the shared feelings of striving for a common goal, within the game, also ties random players together in more subtle ways. People can learn about each other through the ways they choose to play the games and demonstrate their skill. Players are also free from the social constraints of physical appearance since your appearance in the game does not in anyway resemble your real appearance.
Once past the intial conversation topic of the game, players have a tendency to discuss their real lives with their in game friends. I have heard numerous stories from fellow gamers where they have met people in the game who they confided in and they take that confidence into the real world. Some couples have met in the game and gotten married in real life. Some people enjoy the opportunity the game allows them communicate with so many different people across the world.
The public has this general stereotype that gamers are for the most parted socially truncated and inept at communicating with people, thus they must turn to the game to hide themselves. This may not necessarily be true, they maybe much more social then the world gives them credit for. Their specialty or focus just happens to be video games instead of politics.
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14 years ago